Joyous Occasion

On behalf of the Lee family, I would like to extend to you a very, Merry Christmas and a wondrous New Year.  Please consider taking the challenge to read through the Bible in 2012.  You can find three reading options on the main page for Pleasant Grove Baptist Church, so find one that is to your liking and get ready to have fun reading the Word of God.  I will preach one sermon each month that coincides with the reading schedule to aid in your efforts.  By the way...for the first time in a very long time, I've already scheduled my sermons for 2012.  At least for the second worship service, hopefully next week I'll be able to tackle the early service schedule.  Hopefully. 


I trust that you had a great time with family and friends during this holy season.  Blessings to you all...
Jack

Busy Day

Yesterday (December 18) was an absolutely, fantastic, wonderful, AND busy day!  Our Christmas Choir presented the musical "Hope Is Born...Emmanuel" (created by Randy Vader and Jay Rouse) at the morning service (again at 5 p.m.), and it was by far the BEST I've heard from them.  Tremendously well presented and well done.  All components were clicking as they led us in worship (twice) that did not disappoint at any level.  A HUGE thank you to all involved.  Mucho hard work went into preparation, and it paid off huge dividends!

Our next family adventure involved a quick lunch then a birthday party.  Lilly turned 6 yesterday, and she celebrated with a party at the local bowling center.  FUN!  FUN!  FUN!  Seeing around 15 young children bowl was vastly entertaining.  Plus there are some future bowlers...several of them hit 100 or came very close.  After cake, ice cream, opening presents (we all get excited about opening presents...adults too), a few arcade-type games, it was time to go back home to change clothes (again) for the second service at church.  After the second service, we shared fellowship (code word for eating) that also involved great conversations and laughter until time to go yet another gathering.  We finally left the church at 7:30 to drive just down the road to Edie's house.  Every year she opens her home to friends, family, community, and church folk where we fellowship (eating) again.  This is always, and I mean ALWAYS a festive time where we meet/make new friends (see old ones too) and usually hearing laughter echoing through the rooms that provoke one to join. 

Mary was enjoying more this year since other children came and explored Edie's home and scared her precious cat.  This year the cat was smarter as she found a great hiding place to avoid many small hands trying to pet/hold her.  We finally left Edie's around 9 p.m. only to hear Mary exclaim "I'm hungry and thirsty!"  Seems she was more interested in playing than partaking of the goodies.  Then the other children still there also shared the same sentiment.  Thus two more families were helping make small plates of food/drink so we could exit Edie's home before the welcome wore out, but we were witnessing more people come in to see Edie and extol a Merry Christmas to all.

We finally made it home, very tired, but home.  Today should be a slower pace, but I'm sure Mary will find strength to join me in shopping for mommy.  That will be another story to share.  Blessings to all!

Memories

It seems the longer I live the more I rely on memories.  This is a cause for concern since I'm plagued by the "male" gene of remembrance.  Sounds like this...
        "Honey, have you seen the remote control?"  (Her answer: right beside you.)
        "Lisa, where are the batteries?"  (Her answer: right where you left them.)
As you can tell, I'm not very good at remembering, but memories are VERY important in our life.  God uses our memories to remind us of His promises and His watchful eye.  God will point to the crossroads of our lives and show us how He protected us and showed us the right path to choose.  Memories also provide a frame point of time in telling significant times.  We often remember where we were at during the 9-11 attacks.  We often remember what we were doing on anniversary dates or birth dates.  Significant milestones related to careers, relationships, or events help shape and sharpen our memories.

I can recall childhood events with great clarity, but often fail to remember last nights supper.  For the record, I had the bestest childhood ever!  No, we did not possess lots of wealth or material goods, but we had lots of love and attention.  Never a dull moment since we had family and creativity.  One such memory is playing tennis with my brother, cousin, and aunt for what seemed like hours, and I was just a small child, but to be included in "chasing" tennis balls all over the court was a highlight.

However, now I must help create new memories for my wife and daughter.  It helps to be in the 21st century with the use of a camera,  but we still must be creative in making the most of a moment.  What will you plan this month in creating a memory?  Nothing is too big or too small, just go out and do it.

A recent pic of the family at Disney on Ice

Family

This past weekend we were able to celebrate the wedding of our favorite niece (mind you the only one too) Amy as she exchanged wedding vows with Aaron.  It was a great weekend with piles and piles of laughter and smiles.  A tender moment as they declared publicly their love and devotion for one another.  PLUS, our little princess was able to serve as flower girl.

Family is very important.  VERY important.  Make sure you able to spend time with family.  Many a time I've sat with individuals in the latter stages of life, and they began to survey their life.  Not one of them ever said, "I wish I'd spent more time at the office" or "I wish I'd done more for the business."  Rather, they have all wished for more time with family.

Why do we wait until the end to survey our lives?  Why not evaluate our lives now while we have time to make corrections?  That is my admonition to you this week.  Spend time with family.  Show them you care and love them (sounds like a good song...thank you Mr. James Taylor).

Here's a pic of Mary and Papaw

Muppets

Ah yes, I remember them well from my childhood...the Muppet's.  Many a time was spent with family and friends on a Saturday night watching the delightful characters brought to life to bring laughter into the homes across the world.  Last weekend, the Lee family ventured out to catch a flick, and we settled on "The Muppet's" as our family choice.  The movie did not disappoint.  Obviously there were many scenes that depended on the audience's previous understanding of the show, but even then, it still brought laughs and smiles.

I wonder in our lives if we miss out on too many moments to laugh or smile?  Life is too short.  Life is too fast.  Hence, we should laugh and smile more often since the moments fade all too quickly.  This week my little girl will celebrate her 5th birthday, and this is way too fast.  In fact, I can reflect back on my own childhood and I still can see friends playing together.  I can hear the sounds, see the smiles, and feel the touches of those times past.  All too quickly they are gone.

From Charles Dickens's book "A Christmas Carol" we remember the visit from the ghost of Christmas past.  Scrooge tells the ghost can he bear no more memories of squandered moments.  Then the Scriptures teach us from James 4:14 "For what is your life? It is even a vapor, that appears for a little time, and then disappears."

With such reminders, why then do we neglect carpe diem?  Let's resolve then to drink deeply from the fountain of life.  Not recklessly, but with a singletary purpose to bring glory and honor to our Master, Savior, and Redeemer: Jesus Christ.  Savor the moments of life given to us from a loving and gracious God.

Could not resist to offer you a clip of Muppet's in prime form, enjoy!

True Thanksgiving

Most of us are familiar with the traditional story of Thanksgiving where William Bradford, of Plymouth Rock, proclaimed a day of Thanksgiving to celebrate the survival of the Pilgrims in their second year in the New World, as well as an abundant harvest that they had reaped with the aid of the Indians. However, most people don’t know that the first American Thanksgiving didn’t occur in 1621 with this group of Pilgrims who shared a feast with a group of friendly Indians. The first recorded thanksgiving actually took place in Virginia more than 11 years earlier, and it wasn’t a feast. The winter of 1610 at Jamestown had reduced a group of 409 settlers to 60. The survivors prayed for help, without knowing when or how it might come. When help arrived, in the form of a ship filled with food and supplies from England, a prayer meeting was held to give thanks to God. You would think that after seeing so many of their loved ones die due to the hardships of the New World, they would not feel that thankful. However, the opposite was true. They realized they had much to be thankful for.
We ourselves often don’t realize how blessed we are, or how thankful we ought to be, until what we have is threatened to be taken away.  Sure we can thankful once a year, but why do we have a tendency to limit thankfulness to once a year?  Hopefully you will see past the ruse and embrace a life of giving thanks.

In fact, this week take a moment and express gratitude by helping someone.  No matter how big or small the task, because this will aid you in remembering how blessed you truly are.  Have a wonderful and blessed week.

Convention

Last week I was able to attend our annual NC Baptist Convention in Greensboro, and it was well worth the time.  The Pastor's Conference started off on Sunday night with great preaching and music, and it continued throughout Monday.  Dr. John Bisagno (pastor emeritus FBC Houston, TX) delivered a powerful sermon aimed at helping pastor's maintain clarity on serving God with godlike characteristics.  Then another challenge came from Pastor Clayton King to do what is right in God's eyes and not to follow the worldly examples of leadership.

Then on Monday night the convention started, and I must say, this year was a great year to hear about God working throughout NC.  The missions breakfast on Tuesday morning was wonderful since we heard from work taking place in New York City and India.

I was equally impressed with what NC churches are doing through missions: locally, nationally, and globally.  The Good News is being shared and lives are changing because of the Holy Spirit.  From NC to Toronto to New York City to India, churches are being planted, the Gospel is preached, human needs are being met, and lives are being transformed...all because you care.

Through the Cooperative Program (the greatest idea ever) NC Baptist's are able to maximize resources to make the biggest impact possible.  Each and every dollar contributed is used with great care so that the Good News is proclaimed throughout the world.  You may not set foot on foreign soil, but you are making an impact on missions by giving your tithe/offerings and through your prayers.  Do not give up.  Do not take your eyes away from God.  Stay focused on our responsibility to share the Good News.

Below is a picture of my friend and fellow laborer in the ministry, Jonathan Jenkins.  Jonathan was in the youth group during my time in Rockingham.

Splat!

Last Sunday I was approached by one of the youth to partake in the youth fundraiser, and I was eager to participate.  The objective was to raise monies for the youth mission trip for next summer.  They are going to Toronto, Canada to assist church planters through sports camps, bible schools, prayer walking, etc.  Knowing this, I could not say "No!" to our youth.  The event: receive a pie in the face from the highest bidder.

My background on pie throwing is limited to a paper plate filled with whip cream.  The teens background: a real pie (yep, crust and all).  I was a bit surprised when I noticed wth pies, the first one went to our youth pastor Chad.  He received a brutal blow from Luke at is seemed to dislocate his jaw from the tremendous force applied from the throw.  Never did I see a bigger smile on a teenagers face.

Next!!!

I placed the trash bags around my upper torso, and took a seat to ready for the pie.  Hunter was the chosen one to administer the giving of the pie.  He was kind, very kind.  He hit me with a downward motion that avoided my nose and nasal cavity.  The "oohs" and "ahhhs" were heard as they observed my pie-covered face, and yes, it did taste good, too good.  It was a worthy and noble gesture to help raise funds for the youth trek up north and assist in sharing the message of Jesus Christ.  Oh well, after all, it was only pie.

Thankful

There is a new phase making the rounds on Face Book called "The Giving Thanks Challenge."  The basic premise is to give thanks each day during the month of November, and this should be a great idea for everyone to catch.  In stead of finding things to complain about, or to criticize, we should offer thanks to God for all the blessings He has given to us.  In America, we seem to be quicker in offering negativity, than to offer positive feelings that express true blessings.  For instance, in most of America, we have suitable housing, transportation, clean water/air, affordable and plentiful food/clothing, and safety.  Not too many places in the world offer these things to the general public.  Yet we quickly provide complaints when we don't get our way.  In church life it sounds like this: preached too long, preached too short, music too loud, music too soft, didn't like the hymn, didn't like the praise song, the temperature's too cold/hot, someone sat in my favorite pew, no one spoke to me, someone had on too much cologne/perfume, etc.  You get the idea.

What if we turned the negative into a positive?  Focus on the Giver and not the gift.  Here are a few samples:
> Thank you God for giving me sight
> Thank you God for giving me feet to walk
> Thank you God for giving breath to walk far distances
> Thank you God for giving me ears to listen
> Thank you God for giving me clothes
> Thank you God for giving me to air breath
Get the idea?

Way too often we are quick to ignore the blessings, and complain about the lack thereof...very similar to the children of Israel walking through the desert.  Let's change our attitude to reflect the entire compass of God's care for His children.  No matter if there is a lack of material things, there is never a lack of His presence.  We will never be in want of His love.  We will never exhaust His care. 

Are you thankful?  If so, what in particular are you giving thanks?

Science

I'm not a science guy.  I truly appreciate science, but as far as understanding all of the nuances and intricacies, I'm totally lost.  This past Saturday, Mary received an invitation to attend a birthday party at the NC Nature and Science Museum in downtown Raleigh.  It was my first trip there, so I was kinda excited to see all the sights and sounds.  After walking into the front door, all I could say, "Wow!"  Huge skeleton exhibits of all kinds of animals, a butterfly room where many of them would land on you, visual displays to foster imagination, and of course, live snakes BEHIND glass.  Just seeing a rather large rattlesnake behind glass still gives me the creeps.

At one point in the party, a worker brings out live animals to see up close and touch if you desired.  First was a bearded dragon lizard, creepy looking, but cool to see.  Then my heart dropped when she emerged with a small ball python wrapped around her arm.  I carefully located the nearest exit, just in case, but that would require my fast exit over the bodies of 12 young toddlers.  No sense in being a George Costanza here, so I buckled down and took one for the team.  I did touch the snake, but just lightly and for a few seconds (oh, OK just two seconds, but they were very long seconds).  Then a small alligator, that looked ready for his next meal, but she had a firm grip on him so the heart rate continued to decrease.  We stayed well after the party ended walking through the museum and touching many things.  All in all it was great afternoon, and we shall repeat especially during the winter season.

Shout out to my siblings: eldest sister who is a science teacher for high schoolers, and to my other sister who has her masters degree in nursing, and my brother is a nurse (he's a male nurse; funny if you have watched "Meet the Parents")...they all have the gift of knowing and understanding science, love to you all.

Painting

Recently I had the pleasure of doing some house maintenance and I am so thankful that my pastor/mentor Don Phillips was able to teach me the techniques of painting and staining years ago.  The first item of business was to have someone pressure wash the house, and with the capable leadership of my wife, that was accomplished on Thursday.  Next we made a trip to Sherwin Williams paint store to secure the paint for the rails on the front porch: accomplished.  At the store, Mary showed us a large book full of ideas on how to paint/decorate a room suitable for a little princess.  They had large adhesive images from most popular shows.  She was most impressed with all the Disney characters to choose from...her favorite (for today) was Ariel.

Then on Saturday morning, I kissed my beautiful wife and active 4 year old so long as they trekked to Statesville for family time.  Now to paint those handrails.  Quick overview: paint (check), brush (check), paint stirrers (check), rags (check), screwdriver (check).  All was in place, and then I noticed that two bushes were in the way.  Quickly I retrieved the pruning shears and did a little work, voila!  Now we are ready.  Well, almost.  I needed to get a small edger to aid in NOT painting the stained deck boards.  Check.  Now to pry open the sturdy can of pricey paint.  Can you believe that a gallon of paint cost $38????  And that was one of the cheapest available.

Once the can is open, I then proceed to stir the paint.  At first I think there is some mistake, the paint is thick.  Really thick.  But channeling my mentor and friend Don, I remember that this is normal.  So using some elbow grease, I start to make some progress in making it pliable.  Now to dip the brush into that magical white solution ever so gently…just like I was taught.  Then to apply that white liquid gold onto the painted wood hand rails…ah, just like Don taught me. 

Fast forward several hours, we are now complete with the assignment.  Now to clean the brush so I can use it again.  Obtain my soap, bucket, water, and rags…commence to cleaning.  It goes smoothly without any complications, and then back to look over the finished task.  Yes, I am most pleased with the results, and only notice a few glaring mistakes, but still very pleased.

My spiritual lesson from this: be patient.  Yes, patience is not always received enthusiastically, but nonetheless, it is ALWAYS a great tool to keep in your tool box.  Mistakes will be made, but God gives us rags and soap to correct those, so we can continue in hopes of completing the project.  Hang in there, the finish line is just in sight.  You can do it!

Laughter

Ah, the sound of laughter echoing down the halls that beckons a smile while bringing curious minds to follow the emanating trickles of joy.  I quickly paced down the hall in hopes of finding the reason for the joyous sounds, but I moved too slowly.  Upon my arrival, I glanced to find smiling faces burning with red due to the exhaustive and continuous laughter caused by someone (remaining anonymous) telling a humorous story about himself.  I later heard the strange tell that instantly brought smiles and laughter to my face, and I too laughed so hard my face turned red (it's still a secret, as promised).

I love to laugh.  Really, I do love to laugh.  Mostly at my own expense, but I still laugh.  In fact, I could be (and most often I am) accused of laughing at those moments that are NOT funny, but I still laugh.  My sense of humor is dry, often missed by those around me, but I still laugh.

Below, I want to encourage you to watch the video clip "What If Starbucks Marketed like a Church!"  It has both humor (at least to me), and a strong message to the church.  Laugh.  Smile.  Think.  That's right...think.  What are the implications for the church in the clip? 

In the county that I preside (Wake, NC), there are less than 20%  that claim to have a relationship with Jesus Christ.  Out of 627,000 only 109,000 claim to have a relationship with the creator of the universe.  Staggering.  Since NC is solidly placed in the "Bible Belt" this is furthering horrorfying.  What has happened to the church?  Where did we get sidetracked?  Why did we choose to ignore God's command to go and make disciples?

Good questions, but not necessarily needed.  What we must do now is to take God serious and what He has commanded us.  Thus, go and make disciples.  Does it really matter what style of music is played?  (Side note: remeber from "Blues Brother's" the scene where they go to Bob's Country Bunker to play a concert gig?  The lady behind the bar is asked by Elwood, "So what kind of music do they typically play here?"  She resonds, "Why both kinds: country and western!")  Does it really matter about parking lots, pews, carpets, hymn books, or clothing trends?  Too often we get distracted by what is most important in church life: making disciples.

Are you distracted?  Do you consider making disciples an important matter for the local church?  I pray that we, the local church, will get our act together and get serious in following God and His teaching concerning making disciples.  How about you?

Sharing Your Faith

Some people believe that sharing your faith is a daunting task that is reserved only for outgoing people not afraid of speaking in public.  They are wrong.  Very wrong.  It is very easy, and usually takes just a few minutes of time.  I have not engaged in a debate with someone over faith issues in years, but most would like to hear what you believe, and how they can get more information.  Hence the great addition to sharing your faith are handouts.  They come in various forms, shapes, sizes, and colors, but they are only profitable if they are handed out to others.  Some call them tracts, Bible studies, pamphlets, or brochures, but the bottom line is to share your faith.

The other night we were enjoying a nice dinner out and afterwards had some time to talk to our waiter Luke.  His plans are to enroll in the Air Force and leave in a few weeks.  I told him that I would pray for him during his training days, and he mentioned that he would be most appreciative.  This then led to a conversation about church, faith, and then Christ.  He was raised in church, and knew Christ as His Savior, but was still new to our area.  I quickly gave him a card about our church info and another website to aid him in his spiritual walk.  The conversation took place in less than 5 minutes.  Even if someone is not that receptive, most will take a card that points them to a website.  At least a seed is planted, and who knows what will happen at a later time.  Just remember to share your faith.  Share your story.

In the Scripture, we are commanded by God to do just that...share your faith.  It's not optional.
Mark 16:15; Matthew 28:19-20; Romans 10:10-17; 1 Corinthians 9:22; Isaiah 6:8 ;  Romans 1:16; Acts 1:8; 2 Timothy 2:15; Romans 6:23; Matthew 9:37-38; Acts 2:38; 1 Corinthians 11:1-2; Isaiah 45:22; Acts 2:1-47; John 3:16-17

Key leaders over the years have said this about sharing your faith.
We should not ask, "What is wrong with the world?" for that diagnosis has already been given. Rather, we should ask, "What has happened to the salt and light?" - John R. W. Stott
We are all missionaries...Wherever we go, we either bring people nearer to Christ, or we repel them from Christ. - Eric Liddell
Whatever you do, wherever you live, if you belong to Jesus Christ, the call from heaven has come to you to the highest honour a human being can experience. The Son of God is spreading His love, His lifestyle, and His life-saving message across this planet and you know what? He has summoned you to join Him in His glorious Administration. Don't settle for anything less. - Ron Hutchcraft
A missionary is one who never gets used to the sound of heathen footsteps on their way to a Christless eternity. - Anonymous
When God doesn't want me to do something, I definitely know it. When he wants me to do something, even if it means going outside my comfort zone, I know that too. I feel pushed in the direction I need to go... I try to stand up for my faith at school... It can be discouraging, but it can also be rewarding... I will die for my God. I will die for my faith. It's the least I can do for Christ dying for me. - Cassie Rene Bernall
(A 17-year-old from Columbine High School in Littleton, Colorado, USA who died April 20, 1999)

Below is a funny look at evangelism, enjoy the video!

Being Courageous

Yesterday at church, we celebrated Homecoming, and we had a great time.  A former minister, Brian Faggart, came back home and delivered a great message about seeking rest from God.  Then we all enjoyed a delicious meal surrounded by friends and family.  It might have been a tad cool, but still a great time.  Then we, several from the church, went to see the movie "Courageous" in Cary.  Wow!  By far the best movie produced from the Sherwood's that moved you emotionally through a series of complicated scenes that had me second guessing, but in the end, making a decision to move closer in my faith to a living God.  I truly hope that you will take a moment very soon and go see this film.  Be ready to go through a full range of emotions with the climax culminating in making a decision about your relationship with God and your family.

Be a courageous dad, your family is depending on you, and God is commanding you.  What is your decision?

"Casting Crowns" 

Play Date

In our home, we love play dates for Mary so she can better learn to communicate and share.  It's even a bigger bonus when the other playmate is from a godly home.  In this way, we hope, that good habits will be shared by both homes with little risk of learning bad traits; unless you consider singing a bad trait.  Mary LOVES to sing!  She has acquired this from her mom, and her silly ideas originate from her dad.  (I mean, can't we all use a little silliness in our lives?)

In a bigger picture, we can learn much from children.  Learning.  Laughing.  Smiling.  Singing.  Imagination.  Sharing.  Giving.  These are attributes that would add to our lives as adults, but we need to be reminded once in a while, that we should be as children.  Imagine our world with more child-like qualities?  Sounds fun and exciting!  In our home we love Disney movies, and right now I'm on a "Bolt" kick...so here are few clips for you to enjoy!

"It's a good day to die!"

Bolt talking with the pigeons.

That's My King

I have never grown weary of being lifted up spiritually.  No matter if it comes through hearing a sermon, reading Scripture, listening to music, or watching a video.  Here is a great video that introduces us to S.M. Lockridge, a powerful preacher.  Take a moment and watch this video...then be encouraged!

A Few Simple Words

 Mary and Papaw on his new lawn mower

Mary and Nana making "silly faces" while at Pigeon Forge back in July

Below are the few words that I shared at Mom's Memorial Service last week.  I wanted to share them with you...enjoy!

Have you noticed that you always want another day when leaving the beach? Another hour when leaving the colorful mountains? When leaving a joyous reunion of loved ones, you want to hear just one more story? This evening we are no different. We want just one more hug, one more kiss, one more smile, one more laugh, one more story, or one more “I love you.” Yet, deep in our hearts, we know this is not the end; rather just the beginning. A beginning of Mom’s new life in heaven. She is now awaiting our arrival in that grand and glorious kingdom. That is once she has spent time at the feet of Jesus, and then spending time with her daddy, mom, brother, sister, and others. What a sight that must be!

With that thought in mind, are you prepared for eternity? If you desire to see her again, you must be born again.  You must have a relationship with Jesus Christ. What could possibly be important in your life to keep you from peace, love, forgiveness, and hope…and Mom?

When mom and I talked about this service, she adamantly wanted it to be about Christ.

In fact, at first she was opposed to this service, but once I explained to her that this was for us, she consented. By the way, if you want to hear stories of our childhood growing up, just ask one of us; beware, they are probably not short, and they will most likely evoke laughter and smiles.

Yes, tonight is a special night, but not because of Nancy Carol Fortune Lee Lilly, but because we lift high the wonderful name of Jesus Christ. Mom, we love you, and we shall see you again…farewell!

Talk to you later...

 Yesterday was a sad day in the lives of our family.  Mom quietly slipped from our presence into the everlasting comfort of God's kingdom.  She was diagnosed with cancer back in January, and given slim hopes of making a few months, but God was gracious in giving her several months of good/quality living.  I'm going to miss (already do) those frequent phone calls, stories, laughter, advice (even when I didn't ask for it), meals, and her being Nana to my precious little girl Mary.  We prayed for God to take her in His time, and not my time.  Even though they seldom occur together, I still trust my Heavenly Father to work His will and desire into our lives.  Now, there is one more reason for me to long for heaven...but not until my time has come: there is yet more living to take place.  I plan to drink deeply from the well of life.  I plan to drink often from that fountain.  To God be the glory, honor, and majesty for blessing me with a wonderful mom who modeled much for me to observe.  I love you mom!  I will see you on the shores of that river where pain, disease, and suffering have been vanquished by our Master and Redeemer.  Until then...talk to you later.

Obituary

Nancy Lee Lilly of Statesville, NC, formerly of Logan, WV, peacefully went home to her Lord and Savior Jesus Christ on Sunday, September 11, 2011 at home after a courageous battle against cancer.  She was born October 8, 1938 in Logan, WV to the late Rev. W.E. and Edith Fortune.  Also preceding her in death was one brother Jack E. Fortune, one infant sister, Sue Ann Fortune; paternal grandparents, John and Tiny Fortune; maternal grandparents, Paul and Ada Austin.  Nancy graduated from Logan High School (1957), and worked various jobs, but her prize employment was as a stay at home mom to four wonderful children.  Most recently she retired from Michael Weinig Company, and was church pianist at Monticello Baptist Church.  She is survived by her loving husband, Dean Lilly; daughters Wendy Michelle Lee (Rick Hurlinger) of Martinsburg, WV; Sabrina Dawn Adkins (Doug) of Salisbury, NC; sons James Maurice Lee (Rhonda) of Winton, CA; Rev. Jack Randall Lee (Lisa) of Fuquay-Varina, NC; one grandson, Jeffrey Ryan Motes (Noelle) of Salisbury, NC; one granddaughter Mary Elisabeth Lee of Fuquay-Varina, NC.  Also three brothers, Rev. James (Elouine) Fortune, Thomas (Annetta) Fortune and Paul (Sharon) Fortune all of West Logan, WV; step-sons Rick Lilly (Milisia) of Logan,WV, and Randy Lilly (Crystal) of Huntington, WV, and step grand-children Chelsey, Ali Kaye and Decklan, plus a host of nieces and nephews and friends.

A memorial service will be held to honor her life in Christ on Thursday, September 15 at 7:00 p.m. at Monticello Baptist Church, 3603 Taylorsville Hwy, Statesville, NC.  Memorial contributions may be made to your favorite charity or to any cancer research agency.  Reavis Funeral Home in Statesville, NC is in charge of arrangements.

Water

Ah, the feel of cool water splashing about your legs and arms in the midst of a hot day always brings a smile to your face.  Recently, the Lee family enjoyed a short break, and trekked down to North Myrtle Beach for some family time.  Most of the time was spent in water.  The pool, lazy river, or ocean, didn’t matter as long as it was wet.  The temps were comfortable (around 86 degrees) and the water was so inviting.  We thoroughly enjoyed spending time playing in the water, and enjoying one another’s company.

We knew we had to take Mary to the beach soon when she spotted a sea shell and asked, “What’s this?”  I guess we took for granted that she would remember, having lived in Beaufort, what a sea shell actually looked like…guess we were wrong.  As you can imagine, we spent many hours on the beach enjoying the pounding waves that knocked a 38 pound toddler around (yet, she smiled each time a wave moved her around), and carefully looking at the countless sea shells that covered the sandy shore.

This trip is destined to be a classic, and hopefully, we’ll repeat it soon.  A great time was had, and we did not even venture out of the hotel to see the many sights.  There will be time for that, just keep the pool water ready to be enjoyed.

Courageous...the movie

Recently I have seen several previews for the new movie "Courageous" coming out late September.  I must admit, I'm excited to see it since it deals with men, and I'm one.  I hope you will be able to go to the theaters and see it, and if you live close by, come to Cary and watch it with us on Sunday, October 2 @ 3:40 p.m.  For your enjoyment, I have included a few clips to see for your self.  Enjoy!

Courageous - trailer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i9VT_NBIVfs

Here is a great one for all dads!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yw8_Ev6oy_Y

Another for dad's...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sy8fVTElktQ

Take care...
Jack

Family

Last week I traveled back to my home town (Logan, WV) for a funeral service for my mom's brother (Uncle Jack).  Yes, I am named after him along with one of my dad's brother...also Jack.  I left home and headed for my dad's house (it was close enough to make this part of the trip since I never when I may get back there) to ride with him to the funeral home.  We enjoyed the ride and took part in the usual conversation...him talking and me listening.  I'm not much of a person to talk on the telephone, I prefer to communicate face to face, and I believe that dad does too.  We covered a wide array of topics: family, politics, religion, and sports...my favorite being family and sports.  I was able to see places where he worked (before my time on earth), and listen to tales of traveling BEFORE interstate roads were introduced to that part of the world.

In spite of the sad circumstance, I had a great time seeing family.  It has been two years since I visited back home, and I wanted to take advantage of speaking with and hugging the family.  Of course, Facebook is a great way to keep in touch with family and friends, and for many of my conversations, it revolved around current events since most of them know what is happening.  At the graveside, I was able to sneak away and take a glimpse of several grave sites of family members.  Not sad, just relieved that we have hope.  My hope resides in the work of Jesus Christ.  Through His death, burial, and resurrection, I have hope that death is defeated and the grave cannot hold me.  Based on the Scripture, I am bound for the promised land where my Lord and Savior waits for me.  Also, the loved ones who have preceded me, I will see them too!

Even though it was a tough trip, 930 miles in two days, it was well worth it.  I am elated to spend time with those that I cherish, and am most thankful for their presence in my life.  Their fingerprints are on my life since they have given to me, and I now pass those gifts along to others with the purpose of telling others about Jesus Christ.  Blessings...

Bible Study...

This week I would like to bring you information about growing in your faith through the use of tools for a Bible study.  No matter if you teach a class or for personal growth, a good Bible study is essential.  Even if you don’t own a good study Bible, you can use these tools to sharpen your understanding on certain passages to increase your knowledge of God’s message.  Thus you will better understand the context of the message and properly apply into your life.

Just check out this link:

http://www.mystudybible.com/

This tool is made available through Lifeway, and I have discovered that it’s very easy to use and is a great resource.  The daily or weekly rentals are equally important since you don’t have to sink a lot of money into purchasing books or commentaries.  There are numerous assets to this tool, and I hope you will take advantage of this resource.

Blessings,
Jack

Technology

Yes, I am severely incompetent in handling the different nuances of technology…especially when things go wrong.  I can make my way around certain programs, but as far as knowing “why” things work or don’t work, or  “how” to make things work correctly…I am not even close to understanding the myriad maze of technology.  Hence, God has given me bestest person to handle this: my loving and beautiful wife. 

So recently my computer at work is having issues, and the CD ROM drive decided to retire with no notice mind you.  Not a big deal, so I thought, and then I started the process of notifying the proper folk so someone can fix it.  The bottom line, I went to Staples (as instructed) to purchase an external CD/DVD drive.  Mind you, I had to ask the young man the EXACT name of the product to ask for at Staples, and he willingly helped me.  Then I asked him about installing said piece of equipment…pause…“it should start right up when plugged in.”  Hence the operative word is “should” not that it will or did.  It should work.

So after carefully reading the instructions (that is what I do when I have no idea what I am doing) I did what they said.  Nothing happened.  Then I proceeded to read further along…in the “Troubleshooting” section.  When I come to that section, I have the same feeling come over me as I did in my first class on philosophy at seminary: scared.  So after following the instructions carefully, very carefully, I noticed a hum from the device.  Is that a good hum or a bad hum?  Soon, the computer screen showed some good messages: loading software, reboot computer in order to make device operative.  A smile broke out on my face, but not too soon, there had to be a test.  Once the computer came back up, I placed a CD into the device, and a few whirring sounds, tada!  Eureka!  It works!  I am now back in business.

Even when you feel overwhelmed with something, take a deep breath and look at your choices, think carefully and clearly before you make a rash decision.  This is applicable to all areas of your life.  Read the directions.  Understand the directions.  Follow the directions.  In spiritual terms: read the Bible.  Understand the Bible.  Follow the Bible.  You too will see success in life in following simple and basic instructions.

Blessings,
Jack

Dentist

“Yeah, I’m going to the dentist!”  That statement is not heard often, at least in my small circle of friends.  Dentists are necessary, even needed, but rarely do we get excited about going to see them.  Why?  Why are we not excited about seeing the person who is able to take a sharp instrument and probe around your delicate gums until blood excretes?  Why do we not arrive with excitement pursing from our lips “I’m here to see that wonderful doc!”?  Why do we place our selves into that chair only to hear loud noises produced by drills that will eventually be placed into our mouths to puncture our teeth?  (Let’s not mention the loud screams of small children; thanks to “Finding Nemo” for that great scene.)  Well, we need them.  We need to take care of our teeth and gums so we can enjoy solid foods well into our adulthood.  I mean, after all, I do love corn on the cob, but you must have good choppers to enjoy that sweet summer sensation.

Yesterday was my day to visit the dentist to have a wisdom tooth removed since it has decided to invade the personal space of the molar sitting next to it.  It went according to plan.  In less than 5 minutes, I received the numbing shot and the tooth was extracted.  A little discomfort and awkwardness in talking (did someone say that Lisa was happy???), but a successful visit still occurred.  Eating supper was an entirely different situation, but hey, I need to lose weight anyway. 

Now the spiritual connection, at least to me, is quite easy to make; we need to make regular visits to our dentist (God) for a check up.  Instead of brushing, flossing, and mouthwash, we need to pray, read the Bible, share our faith, and attend corporate worship.  Yes, there will be moments that are unpleasant (where God confronts us in our sin), but is totally necessary for a healthy spiritual body, and a vital congregation.  So now, let’s get excited about seeing and meeting our spiritual dentist for a check up that is needed and is most helpful.  See ya Sunday!

Relaxation...

Ahhhh, the joy of relaxing and spending time with family; in other words…vacation. Last week the Lee family visited the mountains of Tennessee to check out Dollywood, Pigeon Forge, Gatlinburg, and the various shops. Of course that included the many candy and other sugar-sellers, but they did offer coupons, so it was a “sweet” deal. Get it? Indeed it was a good time to get away and enjoy some family time.

Along the journey, Lisa and I noticed several things: we are getting older (climbing hills is more noticeable now); we still love water (used the pool often and enjoyed the water rides); we still love desserts (hey, who doesn’t?); we still love, and I mean LOVE spending time with each other (especially driving in a car). She is certainly the jewel in my crown, and I thank God each day for her being in my life. Obviously it is apparent to anyone who knows us, that she is wonderful, beautiful, and important in my life…she is my all (apart from God). Perhaps you too need to recognize that person in your life, and then let that person know how thankful you are to have him or her in your life.

For my wonderful wife…I love you so much, and thank you for being in my life. Love ya babe!

The Aftermath

Last week we enjoyed a wonderful week of Vacation Bible School, and now I am tired.  Not tired like most of the leaders and workers, but still tired.  Last week was an amazing time shared together as we experienced God’s blessings of meeting and making new friends, renewing acquaintances, and encouraging others to follow Christ.  I had a great time serving as a team leader, that is, I moved a group of children from one room to another.  Well more accurately, Ronnie and Ryan (shout out to you both!) moved them while I talked, took pictures, and took video.  I was able to observe that we are blessed with MANY talented members here.  From Bible teachers, to crafts, to recreation, to music, to snack, and then back again…we are super blessed with great workers!  And all of this occurred with intense heat index that would have melted candles or fried eggs on the pavement.  They were all troopers! 

I just want to express my sincere and heart felt thanks and appreciation for those workers.  Many people were needed and many responded…thank you each and everyone.  Without you, there would be no VBS.  No children’s ministry.  No results to be seen.  No parents.  No children.  So please remember that we do this to share the story of Christ with children and parents, and you are valuable to the team at PGBC.  Now, get some rest, but get ready to stay active and busy in helping children know about the love of Christ.

Sharing Your Story

We have a story worth sharing.  A story that speaks to the basic need of all humans.  A story that tells how God provided a lamb in the person of Jesus Christ.  The gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ is good news to a fallen world. Christ's miraculous birth into the world, His crucifixion, and His resurrection from the dead has changed the world forever. All people must either deny Him or embrace Him as the only Savior of the world. Either we look away from his death or we look on it in repentance. Either we reject the belief that Christ rose from the dead or we believe it. These events are not neutral. Neither is our response to them.

From a grammatical point of view, there is only one command in Jesus’ Great Commission—and it is not, “Go” (Matthew 28:19–20).  Out of the four key verbs in these two verses—go, make disciples, baptize, and teach—only one of them is given as an imperative verb: “make disciples.”  That is the Great Commission: make disciples.  The other three verbs are given in participle form, suggesting that they are corollary activities to the imperative command to make disciples.  In fact, “go” is a passive participle, literally, “having gone.”  Therefore, there are three activities required to fulfill the command to make disciples: going, baptizing, and teaching.

So now let's share the story that has changed lives for thousands of years.  Start today.  No regrets.  No retreats.

Vacation Bible School

Yeah!  One of my most favorite times of the church year is upon us: VBS!  The theme this year is "Big Apple Adventure" and it uses NYC as a great image.  Several of the team leaders have been VERY busy decorating and setting up for a successful week.  Last night was our first night, and everyone seemed to be excited and thrilled to see a "little" NYC in our family life center.  A HUGE shout out to those who sacrificed hours and hours to ensure a successful week!  You all rock!!

Bluegrass Music

Last night at church, the Pleasant Grove Singers gave a concert that featured several Bluegrass songs.  I was in hog heaven!  I LOVE Bluegrass music, always have and always will.  The night started with a hot dog / hamburger cook out (shout out to Stephen Upchurch and Robert Brooks for cooking in that awful heat), and there was a great crowd on hand for the festivities.  Several delicious desserts were on hand for the sampling, and I did my best to taste several.  All I can say, "Yum!"  We have some great cooks here, and they were willing to share!  Without any doubt, Pleasant Grove Baptist Church is blessed with some great families.  Thank you to all who come out last night!

Holy Cow!

I can still hear the words echo in my mind as Harry Cary would comment about the topsy-turvy Chicago Cubs.  This came to surface last Friday when the Lee family donned cow costumes to pay tribute to Chick-fil-a’s iconic mascot.  Not bad since we received a free meal out of this tribute, and we were not alone.  Several people got mooovvvving and donned the cowtastic costumes.  It was a fun day, and Mary enjoyed the atmosphere of the large crowd, plus she loved spending time with the cow mascot as he made his rounds through the restaurant and play ground area.  Truly, this was a marketing success for all involved.  Thank you Chick-fil-a for having great food, and giving a great memory! 

Little Things in Life...

Recently we enjoyed two nights of fireworks, and I LOVE fireworks (Lisa more than I do) but I also want my little girl to have the same joy, but we are not on the same page.  The first night, Sunday, the town of Fuquay-Varina treated all to a good show, but about half-way through, Mary spotted two lightning bugs (fire flies for some), and then everything changed.  She was so excited to see the lightning bugs she completely forgot everything else.  Not that I am critical of her joyous discovery, but we see them quite regularly.  However, for this four year old, time seemed to stand still as she enjoyed seeing them close up AND chasing them in hopes of catching them in her tiny, precious hands.  With the help of mom, she was able to hold them and watch them light up in her excited hands.  Meanwhile, the clash, bang, boom of fireworks were for naught.  She was celebrating in her own style...Mary-style.  The second night of fireworks, Monday, the Adcock family hosted a celebration that was grand on any scale.  Mary did not know what to do: sit on daddy's lap, sit on mommy's lap, sit in her monkey chair, move her monkey chair, eat dessert, drink, and then repeat the process.  She did manage to observe the fireworks more closely this night, but her thoughts were on another joy...tire swing.  The Adcock's have the old-fashioned tire swing that beckoned Mary's attention all evening.  As soon as the fireworks ceased, Mary made the petition to go to the swing.  We were one of the last ones to leave the Adcock plantation in the now pitch dark, but one could clearly see the large smile etched across Mary's face.  A grand night for all.  So no matter how you celebrate, just remember to celebrate.  My way may not be your preference, but that is alright, just celebrate.  This also applies to our worship in church.  We have different styles and methods, but what matters in the end is that we worship God...we exist for His pleasure, not ours.  Have a great day!

Ouch!

Every once in a while we come across something that challenges and moves us in our walk of faith.  Recently this happened when I watched a sermon preached by Dr. Herb Reavis from North Jacksonville Baptist Church, Jacksonville, Florida.  (I have included the link below).  Often, I believe, God is able to use sermons, scriptures, and music to move us in our faith that will take us out of our comfort zone.  Since we are out of what we deem to be comfortable, God is then able to stretch us and make us pliable for use in His kingdom work.

We ought to be aware of God working around us, AND that He desires to use us in His plan to share the message of Jesus Christ.  It’s not about us.  It’s not about our feelings.  It’s not about our agenda.  It’s only about Him.  It’s only for Him.  So next time the Holy Spirit hits you with His hammer, it’s alright to say “ouch!” in response.  Then make it a point to change, and not repeat the mistakes of the past.

http://www.ustream.tv/recorded/14460214

(Sermon preached at Mud Creek Baptist Church, Hendersonville, NC)

Traveling

Have you ever noticed the different types of drivers in this wonderful country?  This afternoon, the Lee family made a trek to Statesville to drop off a precious little girl to spend time with her Nana and Papaw, and I was amazed at some of the "slower" drivers out there.  It made no difference to gender, race, age, type of car/truck, etc. there were simply poor skills exhibited.  Driving slow in the left lane (it was a four lane highway), not moving over for faster traffic, big trucks in the left lane going uphill, changing lanes without ANY turn signal, talking on the cell phone while driving, and other things.  Usually I am mild mannered when making a long trek (especially with family), but today was not normal.  At one point I began to imagine that I was driving like my beloved brother James.  Now THAT is scary!  He makes the moonshine drivers look like sissy's.  He is like Richard Petty are on steroids.  He makes the Busch brothers look like the Busch sisters.  Get the point?  So now beware of  James's little brother on the road...he has arrived.

Another view

Well this morning I dragged myself out of bed (after hitting the snooze button several times) to hit the trail again.  This time I took note of the start and ending time thanks to a clock in the garage which was placed lovingly by wife several months ago.  The unofficial time for my 2 mile trek was 15:20.  Not too bad, but I did push a little since I committed to posting the time here. :)

While I was cruising the 'hood this morning, I took time to notice several homes.  Since I am now "visiting" the other part of the 'hood that I am not accustomed to driving through, I paid close attention to the yards.  You know, the color of the grass (hopefully green, but with this drought, most are showing brown), the length of the grass, yard ornaments, flowers, and shrubs.  You can also tell by yard debris if there are any children around...can I get a witness!?!?  Then my thoughts turned to a spiritual application...what does our life tell about us?  Are we close to God?  Are we trusting Him with our details?  Do we "hide" things in the back yard in hopes of concealing a mess?  Do we have a tendency to act like a toddler ("I can do it myself!")?  Also, I wonder if God laughs at our attempts to take control of our lives and situations?  Since I enjoy laughter, I realize that God too must enjoy laughter (especially at my antics), but is quick to comfort us in failures.  So take heart, and realize that in our journey we don't surprise God, but He will always (and I mean always) love us in spite of our clutter.

Bicycle Cause Efforted

What a rush!  This morning I was able to peddle my way around the neighborhood without causing harm to myself (which is a good thing) and neighbors (which is important to them too).  The total distance is 2 miles.  Since it does include hills and  inclines, these tired legs were pushed, dragged, and beaten into submission, and let's not even mention the saddle.  No amount of cushion is helpful to me, so I do what my dad taught me many times as a child "suck it up son, get used to it!"  The new gear function is amazing...just a click of the thumb or index finger, and you are able to go up or down with ease.  Technology is wonderfully cool!  It is a challenge, but hopefully I will drag myself out of bed in the morning and repeat the cycle of abuse in hopes of trimming weight and increasing lung capacity.  You never know when you will need to yell really loud for a really long time period.  It took me about 23 minutes to complete the coarse, but I will follow that time more closely tomorrow for a more accurate reading.  Once I get some better endurance, I will check out the bike trails around the area, but not too quickly...no need in bringing humiliation into the equation.  In the mean time, happy trails to you!

Fathers Day

What comes to your mind for Father's Day?  For some it's a day to relax, watch sports, eat big, or spend time with family.  Either way you choose to spend it, make the most of it.  I received a great gift for Father's Day: a mountain bicycle.  I am really excited to get in the groove of using it since I am in dire need to lose weight and get back into shape.  Way back in the day, my wife and I used to have matching 10 speed bikes, and we enjoyed riding them, so now is my chance to get back into it.  On my first spin through the neighborhood, I relished the wind in my face especially going down hill, but alas, one must also go uphill.  That was a challenge, but I made it through the neighborhood and did not hurt myself in the process. 

The rest of my Father's Day was spent eating lunch at Red Robin, riding a carousel with my daughter at Cary Town Center Mall, enjoying a cookie sandwich filled with icing, and watching Cinderella...pretty much a normal day. :)  I am so blessed...great family, friends, church, neighbors, and Savior!  Thank you God for all that you have given me.

Fathers Day

Not sure why some things are funny for men, but not for the ladies in our lives...but here is a short video that will probably bring a chuckle to the men.

http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/b5500157e1/a-fathers-day-salute

I love the expression that the wife gives the man, and then the children in the back seat...way TOO funny.

For my dad, Wetzel, thanks for the laughs, and a happy Fathers Day too!

Space Bags

Space Bags.

Recently an effort has been put forth in the Lee household to clean and organize closets (not my idea mind you, but one that had to be done).  What started as a relatively easy task, later erupted as a mammoth beast in really organizing existing closet space.  Mary won the contest of having the most items…anyone surprised?  Since I generally fluctuate in weight size, I normally have two sizes: regular and husky (nice way of saying it, don’t you think?).  So to accommodate the large surplus of clothing, we discovered a great way to store clothing items: space bags.  Seriously, they are fantastic and work wondrously.

I must admit that I was extremely skeptical of the bag that reduces bag size by removing air through a “magical” portal.  However, it works!  We bought several bags to store items, and then placed them in the attic for future retrieval.  I’m not sure how it works, it just works.  The image of attaching a vacuum to the bag portal helped me to see something different.  What does it look like to a child of God, when we allow the Holy Spirit to remove ourselves from the center spotlight?  I believe that less is more.  When I decrease, God increases.  True to the opposite: when I increase, God decreases.

Spiritually speaking, is it time to employ the use of space bags in your life?  What do you need to do to let God be God in your life?  Tough choices, but they must be made.  Let’s work together in allowing God to increase in our lives with the hope of others coming to know Christ as Lord and Savior.

Blessings,
Jack